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Samhain: 7 Ideas for a Personal Samhain Remembrance Ritual

Samhain (pronounced sow-in) marks the midpoint between the autumn equinox and winter solstice. Traditionally associated with the end of the harvest, the arrival of winter and remembrance of the dead, it’s a time of year when many people feel drawn to reflect on mortality, honour those who have died and acknowledge the changing seasons.

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Nothing Lasts Forever. So Why Does Any of It Matter?

Some people want to leave a record of their lives. They keep photographs, save letters, write down family histories and take pleasure in knowing that the stories they carry will be passed on. They think about what will happen when they die, what they will leave behind, and how they might make things easier for the people who will eventually have to sort through it all.

Other people have little interest in any of this. They don't particularly care about preserving the past, don't see the point in recording their memories, and would rather not think about what happens to their possessions when they're gone. They might consider the whole exercise unnecessary, self-indulgent or simply a job for another day.

Most of us probably sit somewhere between these two positions, although our attitudes can change throughout our lives.

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Reflecting on the Autumn Equinox: A Season for Letting Go and Showing Up

The Autumn Equinox is a time for letting go, but also showing up. We spent a beautiful evening around the fire together and though the sunset wasn’t quite as spectacular as last years, it was still a beautifully nourishing evening. So engaging, we failed to take many photos actually, so here you can find pictured an image of the vegan cheesecake with homemade mulberry jam we enjoyed for dessert. It was delightful.

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You’re Allowed to Gift Wrap Your Legacy

What do you think of when you hear the word legacy?

Perhaps you think of children, a career, a house, money, something you built, a business you started, charitable work, an award on a shelf or a name that people remember. Perhaps you imagine the sort of thing that gets written into an obituary, the achievements and milestones that supposedly add up to the mark we have left on the world.

But what if we've made legacy far more complicated than it needs to be?

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Reflecting on One Year of This Mortal Life

One year ago this month, I launched This Mortal Life.

I didn’t really know what the year ahead would hold. I simply knew that I wanted to create spaces where people could gather with intention, have the conversations we so often avoid, make things with their hands, spend time in nature, and remember that none of us are meant to carry life alone.

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Completing the Wheel: Reflections on our Lughnasadh (Lammas) Gathering

This year's Lughnasadh gathering marked something significant: our eighth Seasonal Gathering and the completion of our first full turn of the Wheel of the Year together.

A year ago, these gatherings were little more than an idea and a hope that there were others longing for slower, more intentional ways of marking the passing of the seasons. Sitting together on the sand dunes at Sand Bay, warmed by the sun and surrounded by familiar faces alongside newcomers, it felt like that hope has taken root.

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Who Gets to Make Decisions for You? Why Everyone Should Think About Their Circle of Care

Many of us don't live within the traditional image of a married couple with children and nearby relatives who naturally step into caring roles. We may be single, divorced, widowed, estranged from family, child-free, living alone, part of a blended family, in a long-distance relationship, practising various forms of non-monogamy, or simply have friends who know us more deeply than some of our biological relatives ever could. Families and support networks come in countless forms.

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The Ritual of Returning

A year ago, I invited a small group of people to begin marking the seasons together.

This August, as we gather for Lammas, we'll complete our first full turn of the Wheel of the Year. Eight seasonal gatherings. Eight opportunities to pause. Eight invitations to step outside, notice the changing landscape, share food, create together, reflect together and slowly build relationships within a community that didn't exist a year ago.

Looking back, I've realised that while these gatherings have been about building community, they've also slowly deepened my own understanding of the mission I’m on.

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Reflecting on the Summer Solstice Gathering

Last weekend we gathered to mark the Summer Solstice, the longest day of the year and a seasonal invitation to pause and take stock of the journey so far. With the sun making a full appearance for the Solstice, we made the decision to leave our usual spot on the beach and gather beneath the shade of the woodland at the beach’s edge. It proved to be a beautiful setting, offering shelter from the heat while still keeping us connected to the landscape that has become home to these seasonal circles.

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Digital Legacy Planning: What Happens to Your Online Life When You Die?

We spend years building digital lives; storing photographs in the cloud, running businesses through email and websites, managing finances online, documenting memories on social media, and collecting subscriptions, files, passwords, and conversations across dozens of platforms. Yet very few people make a plan for what should happen to those accounts when they die.

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Who Gets to Care at the End of Life?

Long before it had a name, people have been supporting one another through life’s most profound transitions; birth, death and everything in between. These roles were held within communities: by family members, neighbours, elders and those who, through lived experience, became skilled in offering care, presence and guidance at the end of life. This wasn’t seen as specialised work. It was simply part of being human.

Over time, much of this care shifted out of the home and into institutions. Death, like birth before it, became increasingly medicalised and professionalised. What was once held collectively was gradually handed over to hospitals, care systems and the funeral industry.

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Dead Curious: The Community Conversation Café

Get curious, come and eat cake and discuss mortality with strangers. Coming this Summer to Weston-Super-Mare, the Dead Curious café, community conversations exploring the inevitable, weird and wonderful. Join us at the Front Room - 14th June, 12th July and 9th August.

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